This guy I met on POF back in September, I get the feeling he's had a fun time stringing me along.
December 19th, the day my vacation started he said it was great to be on vacation that he'd see me a couple of times at least.
What a load of hogwash. I got exactly ONE FUCKING text message from him since the 19th.
Yep. Couldn't even be bothered to send me messages during his vacation.I can't believe I bought into his story. What a fucking naive idiot I have been.
The sad part is I like the guy. But at this point I don't believe a word that comes out of his mouth.
You know when you tell someone you have trust issues and they do exactly what it takes to make them worse.
I mean I didn't want an intense relationship where you spend 24-7, 7 days a week with someone. I thought wanting to see someone about once a week and talk most days would be sufficient. Along with the odd week-end camping or canoeing trip.
But apparently that's too much too ask.
Apparently I'm at the very bottom of things that matter for him.
You'd think at my age I wouldn't be played like a fool, but apparently there's no fool like an old fool.
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I just read your post and I have a few things I want you to know. I never string anyone along, let alone a wonderful soul such as yourself, that's not who i am. Everything I told you about myself and my situation is the truth, I never lied to you, not once. Christmas was a hectic, stressful mess and once it was over I was on a train bound for the Maritimes. I am very sorry if I hurt you, it was never my intention. You are a remarkable woman and I truly wish I was able to spend a lot more time with you, you deserve to be held, cared for and loved.
ReplyDeleteI had sincere hopes of seeing you several times over the holidays but it just was impossible. My loss.
I also hope you dont let this affect you too much as you truly deserve to be happy and secure in a relationship with someone. You said something in another blog post awhile back.. "Right guy, wrong time". I think that's the one that fits best.
I still hope to continue developing our friendship as I rarely have met anyone that shared so many common interests with me but I do understand where your coming from and I never want to see you hurting.
Sincerely
"The POF guy"
It's all very nice that you had good intentions towards me....
ReplyDeleteHowever a good intention is meaningless unless followed through.
You're a dreamer. You mean well, but without the follow through you're just another jerk.
There is one thing for not being able to see someone,, (I have been in several long distance relationships - my last one lasting for 5 years before we were finally able to move in with one another - daily communication, even if it was just a text - goodnight sleep well was VITAL) being able to see some one is often not possible....
ReplyDeleteWhat isn;t cool is lack of communication. If there is no communication there is NO relationship. If promises are made, then broken, then avoided... that sounds a lot liker stringing some one along..... and is TOTALLY unfair to the other party....
just my two cents
I'm with anonymous. It takes exactly 2 secomnds to msg someone if you really want to. Even just a hi or sorry I've been busy means at least you cared enough to think about that person, even if only for 2 seconds.
ReplyDeleteSounds like POF dude has the world's largest ball of string.