I am a Trichophiliac

Everyone who knows me know I LOVE long hair, especially on men, but also on women too. Though I've found all sorts of short-haired women attractive, men have to be particularly soft featured  and sweet for me to find them hot with short hair.

I know one of my first favourite songs from my early childhood was "Comme un garcon" But as it turns out it wasn't about a Boy with long hair, but about a girl being a long haired boy. Which works for me just as well, I'm not a typical female and being told girls don't do that never has stopped me.

I know I was crushing on long haired boys at 12, in grade 7. I liked the boy that looked like "Hyde" on the 70s show. He had a giant mop of frizzy hair that went below his shoulders, I think his name was Gary, and sadly he was a giant douche with no respect for women, but he looked hot with his hair.  In my teens I crushed on a lot of boys with what I would now call a 70's mop. Hair that's just long enough to be wild, and messy. And I love it moreso if it's wavy.

I think I like long haired men because to be honest, none of the men who hurt me physically in my childhood had anything but crew cuts.  Short hair, suits and uniforms are almost a trigger for me. Meeting a man for the first time, and he's wearing a suit, is an absolute way for me to never see that person in a sexual way. That is undoubtedly my biggest turn-off.    I have no problem with women dressed in a suit, just men. 

Just like I have a thing for blue-collars or working class men. Not a big fan of professionals, who again often wear suits. Of course there are exceptions to every rule, but overall suits just make me uncomfortable.  I suppose there is also the added fact that suits is very traditional and conformist. I am still at 50+ quite rebellious and probably less conformist then when I was younger.  Ask me if I care that women my age don't do what I do?

Yes I'm well aware that just because a guy has long hair doesn't make him a nice person. There are psychopaths and sociopaths of every type. Still to this day I've had better interactions with long haired fellers then short haired ones.

When I meet a guy with hair beyond a certain length all I want to do is play in their hair. So many of my friends and lovers have indulged me in that.  I could just pass my fingers through their locks for hours.

I have to say I miss my last ex-bf's hair. He had spectacular hair.  As seen in the photo below..

Taken on the top of "le mont du lac des Cygnes"

Last year my friend added me to a group called "Long haired men" and it's been better then porn for me. On days where I'm needing a little pick me up, I go into the group and can see photos of long haired men from all over the world. From the 20' somethings, to men older then me.   It puts a smile on my face.  Tight jeans and long hair.  Perfect image to put me in a happy place.